Life is a Journey not a Destination

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Kayla looks back on her life and she has some lessons that she wants to share with you before she graduates. Her guiding theme last Fall was “Let God Take the Wheel.” This was not her theme because she was particularly religious, but this theme resonated with her because it spoke to how she learned the hard way about the many things were outside of her control, and about those things that were in her control which she may have taken for granted.  Click Here for Kayla’s Past Posts.

As a child I grew up in reverse.  I allowed my parent’s lifestyle to guide mine.  Their lifestyle was and is the family business, so I allowed my lifestyle to be structured around the family business.  Their lifestyle was taking care of their parents, so I allowed my lifestyle to be structured around helping take care of my grandparents.  Their social life lacked, so I allowed my social life to lack.  I was a child, and now as a young adult reflecting, I have learned and I want to share:

1) Lead your own lifestyle.
2) Take care of yourself: eat healthy, exercise, and go to the doctor.
3) Think about the type of social life you want/would want.

I decided to get my feet wet early.  As a child, watching my parents work influenced me to want to work.  My first job, as a cashier, was what I thought would be my last job.  What had been a constant routine, helping take care of my grandparents, was what I thought would be my lifelong career.  What had been a lacking social life was what I thought would be a permanent problem.  Apparently, it was time for a wake up call.  I have learned and I want to share:

1) Do not limit yourself to one job .
2) Take some time to really explore different fields.
3) Find someone who is similar to you.

Once I got my feet wet, next was to get soaked.  I had worked so hard to keep a job where I thought I could move up.  I had worked so hard to prepare for what I thought would be my lifelong career and I worked so hard to only realize that I was not having any fun.  I got a big smack in the face; another wake up call, and from that smack in the face I learned and I want to share:

1) A dead end means getting back up to move forward; try a different job .
2) Find what interests YOU to move forward; take classes from a variety of majors.
3) When you feel overworked,  move forward, have some fun, and then try again.  

Getting soaked helped me move forward. After trials of different tasks at my family’s business, I moved forward to another job.  After trials of preparing for becoming a nurse, I moved forward to UAlbany and enrolled in different classes from a variety of majors.  After trials of all working and no playing, I moved forward by accepting to enjoy the fun in life.  From finding ways to move forward, I have learned and I want to share:

1) New experiences and new relationships come with a new job
2) Changing your environment and learning new concepts can help redefine your interests.
3) Accepting and having fun is one of the best ways to keep moving forward.  

Life is a challenge.  For any UAlbany student who is reading this, do not give up.  If you appreciate the lessons I have learned and shared, please use them to your advantage. Know you are not alone at this time in your life. Lead your own lifestyle, get some experience (learn from it), work hard, and keep moving forward.  Whenever you feel uncertain, stressed, or anxious: stop, step back and. . .

Let God take The Wheel


Here are some tools that may help you to move forward:

Academic and Career Tools:

Personal Growth 


Please Note: The views of our student bloggers do not necessarily reflect the views of the UAlbany Advisement Services Center. These are their stories and their voices.
About the Author:

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Kayla K. 
Class of 2018 | Transfer
Major: Psychology
Minor: Business
Past Blog Theme:
Let God Take the Wheel
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About Those Study Skills…

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MyStory Mondays is a weekly digest of our latest posts.

Our UAlbany MyStory Bloggers share their lives with you to help you to stay focused on your goals, to remind and inform you about the many supports that we have on campus to help you succeed, and to let you know that, whatever you are going through, you are not alone. 

This week we share past posts from our Peer Advisors and our MyStory Volunteers about study habits and study skills. Please add to the list. What works for you? How do you manage your time? 


dog-734689_960_720.jpgLooking for a place to look over your notes before the big test? Are your roommates throwing a party the night before? Can’t find anywhere to settle in the library? Look no further as you’ll learn some of the secret and not-so-secret spots for studying to ensure you get that A you deserve! Click Here for More.

 


The Advising PLUS Tutoring and Study Skill Schedule is Here!
CLICK HERE FOR MORE!


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Last semester, Simonti shared her struggles and successes with time management. Check out her experiences with, what she would describe as, the two sides of time management. Click Here for Side One. Click Here for Side Two.


Sam Broking 3Sam B., has a tool kit for starting well in her post, Starting the Semester Strong. She did not come up with this list by doing a Google search. As an athlete, she learned time management and study skills the hard way. She practices what she preaches and she has benefited from establishing better habits.  It is so easy to get off track.


During Fall 2015, we asked our advisors, peer advisors, and student workers for a list of study tips. If you are a senior, you might recognize some of their names. 

  1. Start Studying now. Do not cram. You will learn more by not procrastinating and this will help you excel with your midterms. – John Donoghue, Assistant Director of ASC
  2. Only focus on the same subject/class for 30 minutes- 1 hour and then switch subjects! – Sam Brookings, Peer Advisor
  3. Use your time wisely and take care of your body. If your health is off-center your focus will not be on the books. – Mayra Raxon, Academic Advisor
  4. Social studying helps! – Anita Ma, Peer Advisor
  5. Breathe and be patient with yourself. Study often rather than waiting and cramming at the last minute.  – Kiara Davis, Work Study Student.
  6. Examine yourself and think about when, where, and with whom you study best. I studied best in a cafeteria/coffee house/book store setting, but when working on a paper, I needed silence so the 2nd or 3rd floor of the library was my hiding place. I could never study in my dorm – never.  – Rachel Moody, Academic Advisor
  7. Try your best and stay positive. You will get through this! – Krystal, Work Study Student
  8. When studying- reward yourself with pre-planned break sessions. For example…”If I learn this chapter’s material, not just read it but keep full focus, receive full comprehension and ensure full confidence in my knowledge for the next 23 minutes, I DESERVE three minutes to eat an apple cider donut and check social media”. If you make it into a game, you will focus less on being overwhelmed and more on challenging yourself to learn the material without the FOMO. – Samantha Miller, Academic Advisor
  9. Stay organized! Keeping track of due dates on one calendar will ensure nothing sneaks up on you! – Nicole Clause, Academic Advisor
  10. Know that it is normal to be stressed right now and that this time will soon pass. Check your syllabi often. Map out your test and assignment due dates so that you are prepared. Knowing what is ahead of you really helps to lower the pressure.  –Barbara Brown, Coordinator of Advising Plus
  11. Remember to take time off for yourself.  – Anonymous Work Study Student
  12. Try to keep up that “first week of school” energy.  It can be easy to start to slack off in the middle of the semester.  Do something fun to celebrate getting this far, then hit the books with a renewed spark! – Amanda Parker, Academic Advisor
  13. Remember that there is a bigger picture – a greater goal that you are working toward!  Do not panic, but do your best.  – Anonymous Work Study Student
  14. Pace yourself! A little studying everyday goes a whole lot further than trying to cram in one night!  – Dr. JoAnne Malatesta, Director of the Advisement Services Center and Assistant Vice Provost for Undergraduate Education

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Advising PLUS Tutoring Spring 2018

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A-PLUS Tutoring Schedule by Subject

Sci Lib = Second Floor, Science Library
SSC = State Quad Student Success Center (Second Floor, Whitman Hall)

Advising PLUS can also refer you to many other tutoring resources across campus. If you do not see what you need, contact them! 
Location: Science Library – Second floor | Phone: (518)437-3976
Office Hours: Monday thru Friday; 8:30am to 5pm
E-mail: advisingplus@albany.edu

Subject Course Day Time Location*
Accounting BACC 211 Monday 2:40-3:40pm SSC
BACC 211/222 Wed 12:35-2:35pm Sci Lib
Anthropology AANT 110 Monday 1:40-2:35pm SSC
Art History AARH 171 TBA Before exams TBA
AARH 260 Monday 6:30-7:30pm Sci Lib
Biology ABIO 131

 

 

 

Monday 2:45-3:45pm Sci Lib
Wed 2:45-3:45pm Sci Lib
Wed 7:15-8:15pm Sci Lib
Thursday 11:45am-12:45pm Sci Lib
ABIO 212 Sunday 4:00-5:00pm SSC
ABIO 217 Thursday 4:00-5:00pm SSC
Chemistry ACHM 120/121

 

Monday 12:35-1:30pm Sci Lib
Thursday 5:00-6:00pm SSC
ACHM 220/221 Wed 10:00am-12:00pm Sci Lib
Computer Engineering ICEN 150/200 Sunday 7:00-8:00pm SSC
ICEN 213 Thursday 4:15-5:15pm Sci Lib
Computer Science ICSI 201/210/213/333 Monday 5:00-6:00pm SSC
ICSI 201/210/213/333/405 Tuesday 5:15-7:15pm SSC
Criminal Justice RCRJ 201/202/203 Tuesday 12:00-2:00pm Sci Lib
Economics AECO 110/111 Wed 3:00-5:00pm SSC
All levels Monday 11:30am-12:25pm Sci Lib
Emergency Preparedness, Homeland Security, and Cybersecurity CEHC 101/210/242/

321/343/344/345

Tuesday 12:00-2:00pm Sci Lib
History All 100-level courses Tuesday 3:15-4:15pm SSC
Informatics IINF 100X Tuesday 1:30-2:30pm SSC
Mathematics AMAT 106 Sunday 2:00-3:00pm SSC
AMAT 108

 

Tuesday 2:45-3:45pm SSC
Wed 11:30am-12:25pm SSC
AMAT 111/112/113 Thursday 2:15-3:15pm Sci Lib
AMAT 101 through 299 Tuesday 5:15-7:15pm SSC
Physics APHY 105/108 Sunday 3:00-4:00pm SSC
Political Science All levels Tuesday 6:15-7:15pm Sci Lib
Thursday 6:15-7:15pm Sci Lib
Psychology APSY 101

 

 

Sunday 5:00-6:00pm SSC
Tuesday 7:30-8:30pm SSC
Thursday 8:00-9:00pm SSC
APSY 214/314 Tuesday 4:15-5:15pm Sci Lib
All levels

 

 

Monday 10:00am-12:00pm Sci Lib
Tuesday 2:00-3:00pm Sci Lib
Wed 12:00-1:00pm Sci Lib
Public Administration RPAD 140/302 Sunday 2:00-3:00pm SSC
Sociology ASOC 115 Tuesday 12:30-1:30pm SSC
Spanish Up to ASPN 208 Wed 4:00-5:00pm SSC
All levels Tuesday 7:15-8:15pm Sci Lib
Study Skills All levels

 

 

Tuesday 1:30-2:30pm Sci Lib
Tuesday 4:15-5:15pm SSC
Wed 4:00-5:00pm Sci Lib
Online
Tutoring
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  • Writing – Any level
    (except foreign language)
  • Math
  • General Chemistry
  • Organic Chemistry
  • General Biology
  • Anatomy & Physiology
  • Physics
  • Psychology
  • Economics (Macro/Micro)
  • Computer Science
  • Accounting – Any level
 

 

 

 

 

 

Sunday through Thursday
7:00 pm to Midnight

 

 

 

 

The Fall 17′ Advising PLUS Schedule is Here!

Have you been to the Advising PLUS page? They offer much more than what is listed on here. Check them out: albany.edu/advisingplus | advisingplus@albany.edu

Two Locations: The State Quad Success Center & the 2nd Floor of the Science Library

What is Offered?

Help with Study Skills and Time Management 
Honors College Strategies for Success
Study Clusters for: BIO 130, 131, 212, 217
Tutoring for:

  • Anthropology (Intro to Human Evolution and Cultural Anthropology)
  • BITM215
  • Chemistry (General Chemistry I and Organic Chemistry)
  • Computer Science and Computer Engineering
  • Criminal Justice
  • Economics
  • EHC Courses
  • Financial Accounting
  • Globalization Studies
  • History
  • Information for the 21st Century
  • Mathematics
  • Political Science & Public Policy
  • Psychology
  • Sociology (Intro to Sociology & Sociology of Gender)
  • Spanish

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